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Dating ruins friendships

If it all falls apart, not only do you lose the chance of that perfect boyfriend, you lose the chance of keeping him as a friend.

You can save your weekend nights for clubbing with the girls and splurge on those to-die-for heels you just hadto have. Like any gamble, in a flirtationship, you run the risk of ruining the friendship.

It’s a friendship filled with flirting.” How do you know that you’re in one? ” If you get this question a lot, along with raised eyebrows and winks from your mutual friends, chances are you’re in a flirtationship.

Flirtationships typically develop in one of two ways: they can grow into a romantic relationship or revert back to a friendship.

A close flirtationship with a guy can even turn into the best relationship.

“Some of the best relationships start off with humor and wit and joking,” she says.

I know it has a lot to do with sexual tension and repression on his end considering that his girlfriend lives hundreds of miles away from him... It's a mutual understanding that this is just how our friendship works, but I do know that his girlfriend would be devastated if she knew how we act around each other.” So far, it hasn’t ruined her friendship with Paul, but she cautions collegiettes that flirtationships are definitely “dangerous territory.” “When his girlfriend came to visit in December it was so awkward,” she says.

“We always hug each other so when she was around I had to monitor my behavior to avoid any trouble.” The worst case scenario can happen when the whole flirtationship falls apart.

“I have found that on the rare occasion that it does work out I was starting to develop a relationship with another guy.